For many, there were people who cleared, jobs that cleared and even emotional issues brought to light. It was an unsettling energy, but the end result is transformation. The energy allows us not only to define, but to embrace our true selves and desires. Now that the intensity has calmed, it’s a great time to clear any residual issues.
After years of letting my past relationships define my expectations for the future, I’ve finally been able to release it all in a state of love and acceptance. The past shall no longer define my present or future. Each relationship was a lesson, some harder then others. Each helped to create more understanding, compassion, patience and acceptance. Those who have passed through my life played their role perfectly and I played mine as well. There is no need to base my future on what has come before. For each goes through lessons, heartbreaks and disappointments. Sometimes our expectations are to blame. We enter a relationship with the expectation that the other will live up to our image of love. We begin to not only expect certain things, we demand them. In the end, no one is happy. It serves no purpose to assign blame, it is simply an issue of incompatibility.
I urge you to consider what you’re holding onto from your past. It’s time to take control of your own life and choose. Past failures, successes, issues have no bearing on what you are capable of creating today. No one has the right to choose for you, your choices directly affect your reality. Choose carefully and consciously!
This week I chose to quit smoking after 27 years and several failed attempts at quitting. This time it’s different. I thought about it for over a month and my body gave me the needed motivation to finally release it. It no longer serves the purpose I used it for. Additionally, during the Venus Retrograde I chose to open up to dating again. I released past ties that were suppressing me and have chosen to allow love to flow in my life. Love, health and money are all the same energy. Allowing them all to flow abundantly, allows us to experience the joy we are made to experience.
As always, I’m here for you.
Bernadette Dickinson ©2012 all rights reserved