Breakups are tough but can offer the ability to actually get to the real issues that caused the breakup. If you take this time to reassess your choices, behavior and communication, you can certainly improve future relationships. I’m not telling you to just walk away angry, in fact quite the opposite. You have an opportunity in the next week to communicate clearly and take responsibility for your actions. It may or may not resolve your relationship, but at least you and your love interest are clear. If you do find an opening to reconcile, the work is just beginning. It’s far too easy to reconcile but not fix your internal issues only to have them reappear later. It’s far more productive to commit to change within yourself and follow through. Again, there are no guarantees that this will permanently bond you but you will be growing and evolving to a better, more authentic version of your true self. With the Grand Cross fully activated this week it is a time to listen to others, Spirit and your intuition.
Nothing is static, everything must change and grow. If you were stagnating then chances are, the Universe gave you the much needed energy to push past it. Sometimes we choose to act on that push or we are pushed by someone else’s choices. Today Venus moves direct and allows for clarity of direction. Mercury is due to retrograde on February 6th and communication will slow down. Be careful of misunderstandings. Mercury retrograde is a great time to review the past few months, progress and goals. It’s not a good time to start something new, but it is good to revisit past projects, issues etc.
2014 is all about spiritual growth and spiritual wisdom. It’s an evolving, awakening, transformative time. Use this energy to evolve and express yourself in the most loving, compassionate way. It is far better to choose to grow and heed Universal lessons then it is to be dragged through them unconsciously.
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